A question
Ok guys..give me some answers here. You meet someone nice, you call, you hang out a few times, he calls again to set something up and never calls back, or stand me up.
Why? I'm thinking it might be me.
How could it be me though? I'm cute, I'm funny, who wouldn't want to be with me?
The last part was to convince myself that it's true.
posted by shortensweet at Tuesday, February 07, 2006
7 Comments:
I don't know. Why do you ask for a guys number than not call. chicken out. You might be afraid it might have a chance of going somewhere. Or maybe just been busy. You could always call him and ask him.
11:13 PM
good advice roo......take it shorty.....wished I was shorter and thinner and prettier...etc....lol....who is this?
1:16 PM
Hmm...anonymous, judging by the "..." calling card, I'd say it's Josephine Annie. :)
Shorty, don't take it personally. Maybe the ex-girlfriend he had a shine for called. Maybe he got pulled over for drunk driving :) Maybe he is secretly gay but thought he'd give hetersexuality a chance. Who the hell knows? You ARE funny, you ARE cute, so quit doubting yourself. Bottom line, if he didn't call back, he's not the right guy. Just keep being yourself. "Next!"
2:00 PM
It could also be the age range your into now, I recall when I reached a point in my life when EVERY single woman I met was divorced (at least once) and had kids. You may be in that age zone where guys have been divorced and very afraid to commit. There are lots of shall we say "friends with perks" these days thoughts of a "relationship" goes out the window with the used condom(s) its just too much work and besides, although it sounds crude, there are men and women out there that only want the sexual part of the relationship and then go about their lives without having to compromise or adjust any facet of themselves or tinker with any of their habits. you know the "why buy the cow" thing?
Besides, there is nothing new about Gun-shy guys, we get infatuated, fall in love, get torn to shreds and learn our lesson all too well. Albeit a small portion of us have become aware that our "Picker" is busted and take measures to fix it or just avoid getting into relationships but, the far greater masses have no clue why they keep going through the cycle of:
a. lonely/horny
b. meet woman
c. not lonely/horny = love.
d. give away half your shit,
e. drink alot for the next six months.
f. back to lonely/horny
you get the picture
Bottom line shortness, we all got issues, decide what you want and go for it. Sex and typically only sexual relationships are found in bars/clubs, gyms and yes even the beloved beach is what we used to call a meat market.
If you want something more substantive or long term you must go where those type of guys will be, clubs that involve family stuff, colleges can be a resource too (keep in mind I can't be the only male single parent in Muskegon county) churches are another place to meet, have you looked into an organization called west michigan singles?.
I know that with any man who is intellingent enough to deserve you will know that he will in find you everything we see, the humor, sensitivity and generaly fun to be around to name just a few.
5:29 PM
well stated yoobee
7:11 PM
Not being coupled does not mean you are unwanted. It means being unmatched. I agree with Yoobee that if you are looking for suitable matches, you have to go where those types of guys might be found. When I think of the types you've been meeting I thank God they didn't call back.
2:58 AM
LISTEN TO YOUR MOTHER, JAMES.
9:57 AM
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